Baby Shower or Godh Bharai Celebrations and Games

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Mom-to-be Sona

Baby Shower or Godh Bharai Celebrations and Games has been around for ages. A baby shower is a universal tradition that is followed in almost every culture and in all parts of the world. Names are different maybe but the purpose, involvement, and excitement are the same. Indian baby shower is known as Godh Bharai and in Hindi, godh bharai literally means to ‘fill the lap’ with abundance. It is a great way to pamper the mom carrying the baby in her third trimester and Indians consider an addition to their family as a blessing from God and so celebrate all such occasions with great enthusiasm.

Baby Shower or Godh Bharai ceremony is performed universally. Yes, the customs and rituals may differ but the basic aim of showering the mom to be with the abundant joys of motherhood, blessings and welcoming the unborn child is the same. Godh Bharai is an Indian term for Baby Shower Like most families, the first born is very special for Indian families. My eldest brother was blessed with the news of an impending grandchild and my joy knew no bounds. It has been a much-awaited news and we went all out to give Sona (mother to be) and Sonu (father to be) a day to cherish and take pleasure in.

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I had a very traditional Godh bharai aeons ago but now the concept of Baby Shower has ushered and infused new themes and features. We had a pre-dinner celebration and then lunch at a lovely venue. The traditional rituals too were carried out and then the cake was cut and I organized a few games.

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Hennaed Hands

The godh bharai ceremony is usually a time when most womenfolk in the family and friends have a lot of fun and enjoy themselves. The henna artist was hired to apply traditional henna on the hands. The mom-to-be got her hands painted and then all the other ladies to follow suit.  It is an occasion where your female friends and family can go back with some beautiful henna tattoos on their hands.

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Mom-to-be with her friend
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Friends
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Friends

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The guests come and bless the glowing mom with their blessings and gifts which would help the parents to be. In most communities, the ceremony is held when the mother-to-be completes her seventh month of pregnancy. It is believed that after the seventh month, the baby and mother are in a safe period. It is actually seen as the pregnancy will head to the birth smoothly from here on and that is the reason the baby shower is held in the seventh month of pregnancy.

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Godh Bharai Items

Traditionally, godh bharai is a ‘ladies-only’ affair but these days the expectant fathers are hands-on parents and want to be a part of every ritual. My nephew and my brother were present during the ceremony. Customarily the mom-to-be is given an elaborate dress to wear and adorned with jewellery, bangles, and make-up.

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Mother-in-law handing over the gifts to the daughter-in-law
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Applying nail paint

Her lap is filled with gifts, bangles, bindi, red ribbon, nail paint, lipstick, and a scarf along with seven bags of dry fruits with Almonds, Dates, Walnuts, Cashewnuts, Dry Coconuts, Pistachios, and Raisins. The mom-in-law placed all this in her lap. All the ladies in the family adorn the bride to be. We Punjabis celebrate heartily and hardly need an excuse to break into song and dance. We have songs for every occasion.

In our family, we do not have the tradition of buying things for the baby before he/she is born. It is said to be a bad omen. In the west, it is common to know the sex and guests usually bring appropriate gifts for the baby. But here in India, it is always a surprise and guessing game until the birth. I ordered a cake in a footprint…one blue and the other pink as we do not know whether it is a boy or girl. After the traditional prayer and Godh Bharai, the parents to be cut the cake. They were showered with blessings by friends and family.

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Baby shower cake
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The proud grandparents-to-be with the parents-to-be

I ordered a cake in a footprint…one blue and the other pink as we do not know it is a boy or girl. After the traditional prayer and Godh Bharai, the parents to be cut the cake. They were showered with blessings by friends and family.

I then started the games that were cheesy and hilarious. The first one started off when everyone entered the hall. Each lady was given a clothespin which was pinned to their dress. Throughout the function, if they heard anyone say “Baby” they were supposed to take away their pin. Whoever collected the most pins would be the winner. The name of the game was, ‘Don’t say, Baby’.  I kept prodding them to say Baby by asking them who wears a diaper or why were they here.  Very few tried to get the word out of others, except my friend Sunita, who cleverly coerced the others to blurt it out. She collected 15 pins and was the winner.

The next game was a `Baby word Scramble’ which had 25 scrambled words. Whoever unscrambled them first, would be the winner. I gave everyone the list of scrambled words and a pen. There was pin-drop silence while the ladies were racking their brains for the elusive but familiar baby words. My niece Sahiba was the winner and she declared that she deserved the prize as she had the most experience with three kids!

All the ladies were seated around 4 round tables, each with ten ladies. The next game was ‘Passing the Diaper` which is like passing the parcel. I had soiled two diapers with thick chocolate syrup, which actually looked like dried baby poo.  The more realistic the poo, the better the reaction will be and it looked really disgusting. I handed out two soiled diapers and two clean ones. When I started the music they had to pass around the diaper and when the music stopped, the ladies with the soiled diapers were out. Keep changing the diapers after every round so that every table has a fair share of suspense and luck.I told the ladies that the poop was fresh and I got it from my neighbour’s baby. They were all turning up their noses at the dirty diaper as if they had never cleaned a poopy tush. Freakily, my neighbour, Bhupinder was the lucky winner in this game.

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Clothes Pins for the Don’t say baby game
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Photo Props
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Advise Book

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Chocolate Poo 🙂

We had a photo booth too with baby props like its a boy, its a girl, feeders, team boy, team girl in blue and pink colours. There was an advice book in which all the guests wrote down their advice for the new mom-to-be.

Where there is a celebration, there is food. There were appetizers being served the whole time the ceremony was on and after the games, the lunch was served. Lunch was an elaborate buffet with an array of sumptuous dishes. I was busy with the games and could not capture the food pictures. It was an entertaining and fun-filled luncheon with happy faces all around. Somehow babies do bring out the best in everyone.

Baby Shower Games

1. Don’t say “baby!”

What you’ll need: Clothespins which can be clipped to the dress easily.
How to play: Each guest gets a clothespin to wear as they enter. When all the guests arrive, they should be told that they cannot utter the word “baby.” Whoever hears a guest say “baby” gets to steal her pin. The guest with the most pins at the end of the shower wins

2.Baby Word Scramble

What you’ll need: Paper, pens, jumbled words

How to play: Choose 20 or more baby words and scramble their spelling like –Shower Games—-Howser mages The guest who unscrambles the most words in the least time wins a prize.

3.Passing the Dirty Diaper

You will need- 4-5 disposable diapers, chocolate sauce, and music. Pour thick chocolate sauce in 2 or 3 diapers. You can even use Nutella.

How to Play: Seat everyone in a circle and hand out the diapers. Play the music and ask everyone to pass on the diapers. Stop the music randomly and whoever has the dirty diaper is out. In the end, the one left with the clean diaper is the winner.

4. Guess Mom-to-be’s tummy size

What you’ll need: Ball of  satin ribbon, scissors

How to play: Each guest cuts a piece of ribbon they think will fit around the centre of Mom-to-be’s belly, then take turns to see who’s closest to her size. The guest whose ribbon length fits the best wins!

If you want to play the game you can download and print this…

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Baby Word Scramble Game
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Baby Shower Word Scramble Game Answers

Sunaina’s Baby Shower

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I had the good fortune of being a part of yet another Godh Bharai. This time It was my Brother-in-law’s son and daughter-in-law who were the lucky parents to be; Kirat and Sunaina. A  baby shower in any part of the world is to make the mom-to-be feel special and of course, she is special as she is bringing a new life to the world and a valued addition to the family.

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I came out with the idea for the cake and a few games which I am going to share with you.

1 Game; My water broke…. Take a few baby dolls and freeze them in ice. Call out few members who wanna play the game and hand out one ice cube to each one. The one whose ice melts first has to say My water broke and is the winner.

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2.Game..Spin the bottle is another interesting game with some punishments.  Ask a few guests to volunteer to play. Each has to spin the bottle and when the bottle stops they have to do whatever is written on the card and you can gift each one a chocolate. Baby shower game

3.Game: Word search game is very simple. Just ask your guests to find how many times BABY is mentioned in the grid and circle it. The first to finish and hand over the paper is the winner.Baby shower game

4.Game: Baby Shower crossword game is a good way to brush up your baby vocabulary. Whichever guest hands over the completed crossword first is the winner.

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5.Game: Baby Tambola. Housie or tambola is a crowd favourite game and any number can play it. Just get a custom made ticket made with baby stuff.

1. First two pics are one line- winner has to say I am hungry, next two are the second line-winner has to say Change my diaper and then last two images are the third line where the winner has to say Come and feed me!

2. You can have top three pics as the top line and bottom three as the bottom line.

3. When a guest finishes the full ticket and says  “She He What will it be!”

Baby Shower Tambola

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